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HVA
Policy Manual for 2002-3
Many of our
players have and will come from diverse cultures,
backgrounds, and family situations. Therefore, for
continuity sake we have decided to communicate our
expectations with players and their parents prior to the
start of our season.
Attendance
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Player
attendance at all practices and other mandatory meetings
is critical to the success of the player’s development
and the development of the team. Absences and
tardiness take a physical and mental toll on the team
and the coaches. Therefore, we, as coaches, must demand
that our players place the appropriate priority on
attendance and timeliness. We insist that volleyball be
made a priority in order to players to participate at
this level.
That
being said, education should always be a higher
priority. We have years of experience with players who
needed extra help after school to those who were
valedictorians and salutatorians.
In all cases, we have found that those students
who make volleyball a priority will make time management
decisions that will allow them to achieve high marks
both in the classroom as well as on the court. We
understand rare exceptions due to academic demands, but
we will communicate with the players when we feel that
he is taking it too far. It is for this purpose
that we have set our practices to meet a MAXIMUM of one
weekday evening.
Further,
we understand that there are many extra curricular
activities that are attractive to students, and applaud
their efforts to be involved in their school. We feel
that players wishing to be involved with a Junior
Olympic level club such as ours need to understand that
the demands rise with the level of competition. For
example, those adult members of our USA Volleyball
organization who seek to play on our country’s
National and Olympic teams have decided to make
significant sacrifices. We expect our players to make
sacrifices to the level that correspond with our
elevated level of competition, but should be balanced by
their age. Our middle school players, for example,
should be involved in various sports and other
activities. We feel that this is too early an age to
specialize to one sport.
These
expectations are placed on the coaches as well as the
players.
Player Behavior
:
With
the various backgrounds that each of our players come
from it is virtually impossible to expect that all march
to the same tune when it comes to behavior. We have a
code of conduct that we expect each player to abide by.
Throughout our history, there have been players asked to
leave the club during practices, local tournaments and
even during the national championships.
We
demand that players treat everyone involved with our
club with the utmost respect in their actions and words.
Further, we will not tolerate un-sportsmanlike conduct
of any kind with others teams players, fans, or the
officials.
We
wish for our club to compete at a high level and behave
at the same lofty levels while on and off the court.
Players
will be notified when their behavior is out of line with
our policies and be given fair warning and time to
correct the issue. After this time, the player is
subject to termination from the club. In such case where
a player termination is necessary, the action will be
taken with no refund of fees paid.
Ten
Guidelines for Being a Positive Player-Parent:
The foundation of our coaching
philosophies are crtically dependent upon healthy and
productive relationships with our players' parents. We
HEAVILY encourage maximum parent participation at
practices and matches. However, experience has taught us
some harsh lessons. We have taken the list of guidelines
below from USA Volleyball and, respectively, ask
that our parents follow them.
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Cheer your son on,
be supportive of him, console him, but do it without
judging him, his coach, or his teammates.
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Many things will
aggravate you that do not even faze your son. Do not
make something into an issue if it is not an issue.
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Encourage your
child to seek his own answers. Coaches respect
players who come to them and privately question
their playing time or role; it immediately indicates
they want more.
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Understand the
rules of the game, and the coach's philosophy.
Substituting in volleyball has consequences.
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Do your physical
part as a parent. Get your child to practice on time
and pick him up promptly. Demonstrating
responsibility and commitment can be incredibly
effective. When attending out of town tourneys, do
not ask for your child to be excused from all team
activities until after all players are excused
following the completion of the tourney.
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Positions and
talent sometimes do not match up. Coaches attempt to
do what is best for the team, putting the best
physical mix and the best "chemistry" on
the floor. That may mean that sometimes your son may
be playing out of position in an attempt to
strengthen the "team." A positive spin by
you can go a long way in helping him adjust to a new
role. Stay positive, and maybe he will flourish.
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If you have real
concerns, and your son has unsuccessfully attempted
to work things out with his coach on his own,
schedule a meeting with the coach, and have your
child attend with you (you may not be hearing the
whole story - a common occurrence). If you are
trying to resolve a problem, help your child by
being a role model in the problem solving procedure.
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Never approach a
coach with complaints after a tough game. Wait, and
schedule a visit after everyone cools off. Most
coaches are highly competitive and, just like
players, do not like to be confronted after tough
games.
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Please think before
criticizing anyone connected with your son's club or
team. Criticism is contagious and often hurtful. The
damage you do could be irreversible.
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Visibly show that
you enjoy watching your son perform; this will make him
feel better about his participation, no matter what his
role is.
When these guidelines are followed the
results can be tragic. Read an example of one such story
written anonymously to USA Volleyball by a veteran
coach.
CLICK HERE FOR STORY
Parents will be notified when their behavior is out of line with
our policies and be given fair warning and time to
correct the issue. After this time, the player is
subject to termination from the club.
Refunds
As
stated in the assumptions section above, the player’s
fees are based on a certain number of players per team
to share the team’s costs. Therefore, if a player
leaves the club or is removed from the club there will
be no refund. However, if the player finds another
player who wishes to join the club and assume the same
fees that the previous player had, then the club would
refund the appropriate amount to the ex-player. This
will be done within 10 days of receiving funds from the
new player.
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